Ward Cleaver Myth or Reality . . . .

I grew up with shows like Leave it to Beaver, Dennis the Menace and Little House on the Prairie. All the while I watched as the MAN went off to work to make a living to support his family. Does this type of life still exist? Did it ever exist? Where have all the Ward Cleavers gone, the Pa's, the men that wanted to take care of their family. Trust me I know that these ideals may be very archaic. There is a very large amount of women that would be slapping me in the face right now if they read this and even though I love that I have the option to have a career if I want to, what if I want to be a "House wife"? Wheres that option and whats wrong with that? Is Ward Cleaver just another Lockness or Bigfoot? Is he this illusive creature that doesnt really exist but one that we continue to search for or is he a thing of the past that at this point I have to admit will never be found. I grew up living a life like this. Dad was the patriarc and my mother only worked because she wanted to. My dad never said no woman you must stay home and be my man slave. Instead he said you work if you want to you, do what you want HE GAVE HER THE OPTION because really he could support us all. Now Im not stupid I know that in this day and age its almost impossible due to the fact that things are so astronomically expensive and both the husband and wife need to work and Im more than intelligent enough that I dont need a man for me to survive but I would love todays MODERN MAN to stop being such a FRIGEN PUSSY and step up their game. This is a common fight I have with my (raised only his mom) husband. At the time Im so frustrated and Id love to jump is his body and be more of a man for him but why should I have to do that. Then when I sit back and think about it we're all products of our families, our environments, our society so how do I fault the man of the environment that made him this way. Its not like Im with out a billion faults myself. However this is MY BLOG and I get to unleash my anxietys and frustrations and if he would like to do the same then he can start his own blog and bitch all he wants about how much of a pycho bitch I am. Until then I will end with the same question. Where have all the Ward Cleavers gone and why does modern man have a bigger vagina than the women their married to? <3 woah baby HARSH but cathartic <3

ca·thar·tic/kəˈTHärtik/

Adjective: Providing psychological relief through the expression of strong emotions; causing catharsis.